Thanks for the welcome. Indeed, who or what is Chonaman. The short answer is - someone who, like you has come to HG for information and camaraderie.
The longer answer is: I've been here for many years, and have found this a place where you can get great info from excellent players of any given game, and at the same time trade stories, strategies and other valuable information with your fellow players.
Heck, if you want to, you can talk trash or just hangout any way you want to. There are no extraordinarily restrictive rules to prevent you from going in directions that interest you here, you can even lurk without any worries. But I've found this to be mainly a gaming place, and a place where players come to swap stories and share useful information about the games they love. You can do more, and you can do less. Ultimately, it's up to you how you want to make the most of this community.
No matter what, after you're done working out in your chosen forum, you can sidle up to the HG Juice Bar and have a nice splash of Coke/Pepsi or anything else you prefer!
Whoops, I thought we had a Juice Bar. My bad!